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There is no power greater than a community discovering what it cares about.
-Margaret Wheatley

The weekend of March 7-9 provided time and space for a group of IHM Sisters who are age 58 and younger along with the Leadership Team to meet and talk about religious life issues important to them and their shared future in the IHM Congregation. The Theresa Maxis Conference Center was transformed into the Maxis Café where sunflowers, rockers, benches and low lit lamps created a relaxed atmosphere inviting the Sisters to conversation.

Srs. Therese O'Rourke, Annmarie Sanders and Helene Cooke were facilitators for the weekend gathering. Sr. Mary Persico introduced IHM 2020: Trends and Challenges and Sr. Mary Jo Gallagher spoke of the IHM Theological Reflecton Process.

Summarized here are some of the ideas generated from small and large group conversations that took place in the Maxis Café.


 

Our Hopes For This Time Together

  • We hope to get to know each other better/deeper by sharing our stories.
  • We hope to deepen our commitment to each other.
  • We hope to deepen our connectedness to grow forward.
  • We hope that all of us can deepen our comfort level with each other and be true to ourselves.
  • We hope for a greater desire to develop a unity of vision…and support one another to change.
  • We expect to be renewed in our hope for religious life and to feel good about who we are, individually and as a group.
  • We hope to break through our fear of the unknown with a concrete vision of a meaningful action plan and a sense of direction for us as IHMs.
  • Our best hope is to capture the energy of the group in order to formulate a plan of action as we move into the future.

    One of the ways in which the Sisters had a chance to "get to know each other better" was to idenitify each other by childhood photographs. The photo contest created great fun and lots of laughs.

The Question:
With fewer resources (members & money) how are we going to be viable and prophetic in…
- our religious life?
- our community life?
- our service to the mission?

Table feedback after two rounds of Café process:

- Identify where the passion of your heart meets the center of your world.
- Take note of the signs of the times and be willing to take risks.
- Conversion of the heart, mind and soul will help us to regain energy to become more viable.
- Regarding stewardship: each sister needs to make life giving choices.
- Renew our life styles:
- It is time to put our $$ where our mouth is.
- Encourage one another to be true to who we are.
- Ask, “What if ?”
- We don’t need money to be prophetic nor viable.
- Consider forming partnerships.
- Meet often in smaller groups for good conversation. We get closer to decisions this way.
- Don’t use success terminology. Focus on the Gospel and make decisions like a family.
- Keep in touch with deeper meaning behind decisions regarding prophetic witness and viability.
- We share a sense of urgency to plan and design a framework for creation of our IHM future.
- Hold on to the richness of our charism.
- Don’t let money get in the way of the dream.
- Broaden our conversations.
- Develop a more global vision of our associate program.
- Network with other communities.
- Identify some unmet need (both within the Congregation and among the people of God) and design an action plan or plans. Ask, “What if we did this….?”Be creative. Put passion and energy behind it.



Final Feedback that followed the session on Theological Reflection:

Challenge:
- Commitment of time to longer/more frequent periods of personal prayer.
- Many gatherings will be critical.
- Share with others whenever opportunities arise: cross pollinate.
- The engaging of many/diverse personalities is always a challenge.
- Diverse styles are a challenge
- It is critically important to BE YOURSELF!
- There is always tension when moving from talk to action.
- Stay open…stay long enough..
- Focus on the common good.
- Finding time ‘after hours’.
- Geographic dispersion is a challenge to process.
- Many ‘cultures’ working together.
- Think of ourselves as a family: finances, leadership and aging members.
- It takes time to get to know one another on a deeper level.
- Need to include Peru sisters in this process…Maybe 2 from the US could travel to Peru and take to them and bring back the results of this process.
- Active membership needs to plan for the care of our aging members (before a crisis).
- We have a firm commitment to BE THERE for our aging members.
- Gather sooner than later.
- What example(s) do we want to project? How DID we move forward?

Resistance:
- Transformation is always scary.
- We may want to find one place where sharing may occur (comfort level).
- Worried: How can we communicate all that happened this weekend? Will we be in a different place next year?
- It’s a question: Are we ready to ACT!
- We don’t want to appear nor be exclusive. How do we gather the entire membership into the process of moving forward?

What’s next?
- Invite ALL to action.
- Be with our wisdom figures (IHM Center and OLP).
- Continue conversations. Take every opportunity to share the hope.
- Create a summary of this weekend to be posted/published.
- Use the IHM Blog re: Lynn Jarrell, Ray Dlugos
- Meet after the assembly to process all input.
- Share ‘white paper packet’ with wisdom figures.
- Find a way for the wisdom figures to communicate back to us.
- Establish dates well in advance.
- Gather volunteer committees to plan future meetings. Perhaps a term of 1-3 years.
- Clarity needed: This is not a governance structure. We are ALL committed to creating a better future.
- Connect with mission groups that have no younger members.
- Place summaries on BLOG. Be inclusive.
- Stay together!







Saturday Evening Wine and Cheese with Our Sisters at the IHM Center






Action Steps: Seeds to Plant and Nurture

Personal Level:
1. Be open to conversion.
2. Pray for and nurture passion in our hearts.
3. Make intentional decisions focused on the common good.
4. Live out of Gospel/IHM values.
5. Develop radical intentionality.
6. Always base decisions on current and accurate information.

Corporate Level:
1. Organize and create new, extended networks with others. Involve other congregations and groups outside the church.
2. Consider creating a new ministry to meet a specific need. It might involve allowing one or more sisters to leave (a) present, paying job(s).
3. Always base decisions on current and accurate information.
4. Consider having a group of sisters gather to form a new community for the purpose of seeking creative ways to live our religious life more intentionally.

Both Corporate and Personal Level:
We recommend for immediate action the implementation of a creative forum to dream together and process possibilities related to all of the above.










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