Tuesday of the Third Week of Advent December 16, 2003 Scripture: Zephaniah 3:1-2, 9-13; Matthew 21:28-32 Reflection: In the parable of the two sons, Jesus is speaking to the self-righteous of his time, individuals who felt secure in their life-style and saw no need for change. They were blind to the speck in their own eye and had closed their ears to the message of John the Baptist, "Repent, and change your ways." Jesus admonished them for refusing to acknowledge the truth and believe. Because of their closed mindedness, they were unable to recognize the most extraordinary person the world has ever known, the Messiah. As a result of that denial, their spiritual growth and development was delayed, while those who accepted and believed in the truth were assured of the kingdom. Occasionally, such moments occur in our own lives, times when we fail to recognize Christ - in the poor, the outcast and the downtrodden, and sometimes we fail to see his face in a terminal illness, an unresolved misunderstanding, an unexpected change in ministry or a temptation to go astray. Whatever the situation, the question remains the same, will we utter "Yes," or "No," to the will of the Father? Will we deny God's presence in life situations or will we, like the first son, after much thought and prayer, recognize God in the events and signs of the times and say, "yes?" Suggested Action: Today, we might reflect briefly on the times in our lives that we have said, "Yes," and the times we have said, "No." Then, ask our gracious God to forgive us for the times we have said "no" and provide us with the grace to remain faithful! Sr. Regina Marie Wilson Woodhaven, New York